GREENGE@aol.com <GREENGE@aol.com> Tue, Apr 5, 2011 at 2:20
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Hi Shipmate,
We recently learned that a CO of the SSN 575 passed away, Cdr. Pete Cady USN as
he was known then. This would have been around 1963. I would like to post
something about him somewhere so that shipmates who served with him would find
this out.
Jerry Green
E.O. 1962-1966.
John P. Cady Jr.
April 03, 2011 2:00 AM
PORTSMOUTH — John Parmelee "Pete" Cady Jr., husband, father, brother, lover and
friend, died peacefully Thursday, March 24, 2011, at Portsmouth Regional
Hospital.
Pete's priority was always his family, specifically the love of his life, wife
and consort for 56 years, Phyllis Keune Cady, "Phylicia" and his three
daughters, Lauris, Johanna Damaris and Gillian Parmelee, and the sweet,
irrepressible Phoebe, a constant source of love and amusement. Pete remained an
advocate and friend to his brother, Dr. Blake Cady, of Brookline, Mass.,
throughout their lives. Pete's wry sense of humor, quick wit and enjoyment of
life brought him many friends through his 83 years.
Pete was born Nov. 28 1927, in Philadelphia, Pa., to Capt. John P. and Elizabeth
Blake Cady. Following graduation at Moses Brown School in Providence, R.I., Pete
entered the U.S. Naval Academy in 1946, graduating in 1950. He was an avid
sailor and crewed on the Naval Academy's yawl, Royono, in 1950 for the renowned
Bermuda Race.
His first tour of duty was aboard the USS St. Paul, ordered to Korea, and
following his tour continued on with duties aboard a number of nuclear
submarines. In 1963 Pete took command of the USS SEAWOLF and in
1968 took command of the FBM nuclear submarine USS George Bancroft. His last
tour of duty, before retirement as Captain, was at ComSubLant staff in Norfolk,
Va.
Pete and Phylicia enjoyed traveling and shared this interest with their
daughters, taking a year to explore and travel in Europe as a family. Upon
return, Pete brought his nuclear engineering expertise to several engineering
companies in the New York, Tri-State Area. In 1979, a move to Portsmouth brought
Pete to where he and Phylicia called home. He worked for Public Service Company
of New Hampshire, and retired, for a second time in 1993.
From his childhood, Pete was always happy working with wood, and he volunteered
for a number of years at the Strawbery Banke Carpentry shop. He enjoyed playing
croquet and was active with the Strawbery Banke croquet group. He further would
tax himself with crosswords in the New York Times. Other favorite amusements,
echoing his dry sense of humor, were the musings of cartoonist Gary Larson and
Bill Watterson's comic strip, "Calvin and Hobbes."
Pete Cady was a brilliant and practical man, humble, and honest with an engaging
smile, a sparkle in his eye and a quick step, as he left you grateful for the
moment you just shared and kept everyone who met him looking forward to their
next encounter. He was the salt of the earth, he gave it flavor. May he always
rest in peace.
No services are planned. However, his family knows he will always be present,
especially when the wind calls them to the sea. The family suggests donations be
made in Pete's name to the Kittery Historical & Naval Museum, 200 Rogers Road,
Kittery, ME, 03904. To sign an online guest book, visit
www.brewittfuneralhome.com.
Eternal Father, strong to save,
Whose arm hath bound the restless wave,
Who bidd'st the mighty ocean deep
Its own appointed limits keep;
Oh, hear us when we cry to Thee,
For those in peril on the sea!
O Christ! Whose voice the waters heard
And hushed their raging at Thy word,
Who walked'st on the foaming deep,
And calm amidst its rage didst sleep;
Oh, hear us when we cry to Thee,
For those in peril on the sea!
Most Holy Spirit! Who didst brood
Upon the chaos dark and rude,
And bid its angry tumult cease,
And give, for wild confusion, peace;
Oh, hear us when we cry to Thee,
For those in peril on the sea!
O Trinity of love and power!
Our brethren shield in danger's hour;
From rock and tempest, fire and foe,
Protect them wheresoever's they go;
Thus evermore shall rise to Thee
Glad hymns of praise from land and sea.
— William Whiting